Remember Us

REMEMBER US?

Remembering what you want to still Appreciate in your mate!

Marriage is a relational commitment that has within it the possibilities of bringing about incredible joy and happiness, and also deep wounding and resentment. So, do you still hold on to the hope that things will work out for the best.

Do daydream about how your relationship with your spouse used to be when you both got married? Were those good times or bad times? I have often spent time remembering how my wife and I used to feel together when we first got married. There were times that I felt that things could never get better than they used to be. Now, I feel much different about that. I “remember us”, I remember how she and I used to be together… and that helps me to realize that even when things feel so hard, that we can have that sense of harmony again.

Remember Us: How to Save A Marriage from Divorce!

The beginning of every effort to Save Your Marriage

We all have expectations of how we want our lives to turn out, and when we decide to marry someone the stakes are raised and our perception of the future becomes a lot more complicated. Remembering how the good times felt can be the beginning of a winning streak of making the relationship feel even better than it ever had felt before.

Remember Us:

Try to make it the first thing you do

Even when difficulties and relational strains enter into a “remember us” type marriage relationship that may lead to opposition between you and your spouse. Then the feeling of fight or flight occurs. The very first thing to do is to Re-Remember.

Take one second to remember that person you married and first remember the commitment of “till death do us part”.
Then remember the feelings of love and appreciation you had for your spouse on that wedding day.
Remember the vows of “oneness” that you took together. This does not have to take long to do.

Remember Us:

The power of appreciative thoughts!

There are several steps to take to resolve conflict “no matter how great” within a marriage relationship and they will be addressed throughout the many articles on this site. I believe the first thing to do is to calm down by thinking appreciative thoughts about your spouse and your marriage to ground you to the foundation of your marriage before taking further steps to manage relationship issues.

Try it out and see if it does not help you to appreciate the best qualities of your spouse and see if it will work wonders in sparking up the interest you have for your spouse for who they are as a person now.

Remember Us:

Ask Your Spouse, “Remember Us?”

Then when things calm down, share those memories with your spouse. Find the wedding album, make a family scrapbook and ask your spouse, “Remember Us?”

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See if during a time of truce or a lull in any conflicts within the marriage if asking him or her, “Remember Us” if that does not bring the same thoughts of nostalgic appreciation within the thoughts of your estranged spouse. Simple memories of the wedding day, the birth of your child or any other joyous memories, that can be introduced by asking “do you remember when?” or again, “remember us?”

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Remember Us Bonus: “The Story” of the love and marriage of Keep Marriage Alive Founders

The first installment of the story of my wife, Sarah and I is below. The rest of the installments will be made available on a link to the next blog post of my saga story to you as soon as it is ready to be posted.

The beginning of the story we retell to each other when we need to “remember us!”

“I love to illustrate, paint, and write!
Sometimes, if I am adventurous, I mesh all three together in
a big work of art.

It turns out that an art buddy of mine was the girlhood best
friend of Sarah, the woman who is now my wife.

I still remember that fateful day like it was yesterday!
Just looking at how my wife has retained her pristine beauty
makes it easy to do this.

This boy meets girl story has kind of an interesting first
impression attached to it. I was kinda artsy fartsy back then.
I wore fancy tab collared shirts, and carried an umbrella, or
a cane.

Kinda like Hue Heffner wears a bath robe and smokes a pipe!

Anyways, when I was introduced to Sarah, I kissed her hand!
I was totally floored by how sweet, and beautiful she was. I
could not help myself.

She became a ray of sunshine in an otherwise dark period
of my life. As we became friends, I soon became a very tardy
student. I was always late to so many classes, because I would
wait for her to get out of a class, and then walk her to her
next class before racing to get to my own class.

We talked on the phone every day, and became new best friends.

As our friendship grew my love for her grew as well.

Remember Us: The Vision I had one night

One night I had a vision of our future. In the vision, I was in
the Army,and then later in the vision, Sarah & I were a married
couple together while being missionaries to some far off country.
She and I were sitting across from each other — face-to-face
with a glowing fire between us. I saw this fire as the glowing
fire of the unity candle that newly married couples light together
on their wedding day.

From that night on, I became a man of vision with a purpose
to pursue. I pursued that vision.

Remember Us: Joining the US Army

I joined the US Army, it was easy to do because
one of my uncles was an Army recruiter out of Brooksville,
Florida. I joined through a local recruiter and was off to
Fort Sill, Oklahoma. Do not get me wrong. This was very tough!

I started out sort of like a clueless idealist! I was not
a well trained soldier in the beginning. Few really are.
The catch phrase of one of my Drill Sergeants was, “You tell
your Momma, and your Papa, they raised themselves a piece of
s#*t”!

In fact, I work real hard to become well trained and able
to do something I set my mind to! Things in life do not come
easily for me. It takes an extra helping of pure heart to
persevere and master something!

Eventually, I made 1 of my Drill Sergeants Proud! That
other Drill Sergeant still thought most of us were pieces of
s#*t! Go figure!

The fact I know for certain that I will work hard at
whatever I find important is very important in deed. It is
one of the keys for the success of my marriage!

Three years pass and in all that time, Sarah and I
remained the closest of long distance friends. I never let
go of my love for her that started that day I met her and
kissed her hand.

Remember Us: The Best Christmas Present I have EverReceived!

Picking up where I left off, One Christmas shortly before
I would be promoted to the rank of Sergeant, I visited my family
and most importantly I answered a call to visit Sarah at her
request. I did what any man who is madly in love with the
woman of his dreams would do, I borrowed my grandparent’s car.
One that subsequently had a bad radiator, which caused the car
to overheat repeatedly on the way to her house.

Perhaps, it was the fire raging in my heart to be with her
that did it, but I am pretty sure the radiator was to blame.

I finally get to her house, we talk for the night. We go
out to eat. We go back to her house, and then in her back yard,
she tells me that she loves me!!! I was so dense then that I
said in reply, “I know Sarah, I love you too, Merry Christmas”!

Remember Us: She Confessed her love

She pulled me closer and said, “No James, you don’t get it.
My heart has changed for you. I no longer think of you as a
friend or brother. I LOVE YOU!”

I could not believe my ears. Five years as best friends,
while I felt so much desperate love for her. Of course, she
knew I loved her and that I had waited for her!

Now all of the waiting culminated in the turning point of
my life with those 4 words, “James, I love you!”

Now this is just the beginning of our story. We discussed
marriage that very night. It was certain in our minds!
However…, We did not know just how hard a road it would be
to get to the alter!

Remember Us: The birth of “Keep Marriage Alive”

This was the birth of “Keep Marriage Alive“, in Sarah’s
and my heart at least. The beginning of “Keep Marriage Alive”
was the first step in realizing that we could “Live” out the
beginning of that vision of “Us”! I had that vision three
and half years before any of this ever happened.

And it would be another two and a half years before I
would even tell Sarah about the vision that I had about “Us.”

Much was still to be recognized about ourselves. And, we
did not even have a clue of all of the things we would have
to come to grips with.

Remember Us: Someday we would be Man & Wife!

For that day. We were in love and someday, we would be
man and wife! That was all that mattered to us. This was also
the beginning of the end of my Army “coming of age” experience.
You see, it was the growing up that I did in the Army, while
still reaching out to touch her heart that changed the way
she felt about me.

Thousands of miles distance between us over the course of
3 years made no difference. What made the difference was a change
in my character in her eyes.

Use your story as a point of reference for falling back in love… if you drifting apart.

So, I recommend that both of you have ‘remember us” moments as much as possible.

Think back. Use any opportunity to have a “remember us” moment to reflect about all of your accomplishments together… what you did to fall in love.

Hold on to that! Remind each other often. Perhaps, it can be the beginning of the rest of your marriage!”

Sexless Marriage

Do You Want to Discover How to Spice Up Your Sexless Marriage?… Or, Are you Content to feel the slow death of a Sexless Marriage?

Solutions for your sexless marriage: When a Sexless Marriage feels lonely!

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There are those evenings when I have no sexless marriage worries – I sleep “per chance to dream” as the old Shakespeare play puts it! In fact, the lead character, Prince Hamlet, of the play “Hamlet” was pondering the after-life. He was wondering about how death would “feel like” – when a sexless marriage can feel like a slow death.

I am going to talk to you a little about how a sexless marriage “feels” from the perspective of a loving husband, and I invite your comments on the topic.

An active, intimate marriage, or the lack of intimacy in your marriage (i.e. sexless marriage) is more than just a symptom of the greater issues in marriage – positive for the former, and negative for the latter. Sexual intimacy in marriage can be the life blood of the relationship, and the source for the passion that can keep marriage alive.

Enjoying your relationship together while happily living out an intimate marriage can make all of the problems seem to go away when the two of you focus on the needs of each other - like a getting a “fix” of pleasure hormones called endorphins, everything feels great and the two of you can conquer any challenge together!

Yet, a “sexless marriage”, even for a short season can feel like a slow death for both a husband and a wife… But, there are issues and problems that get in the way to solving that deathly feeling in your marriage. And, I will share some critical tips to help you reignite your marriage!

One thing to note: My wife and I do not have a sexless marriage - But, that is only a half truth. If we do not continue to work on those things that lull our passions for one another, or simply kill attraction for another… we too could join the ranks of those who are suffering in a sexless marriage.

Reasons for your Sexless Marriage: A quick question

OK. I am not going to exclude the ladies from this next question. Fellas and gals out there, does something like this happen to you when you have worked hard to be intimate with your spouse, and it just seems to fall through the floor? There is a big let down isn’t there?

Even in wonderfully happy and functional marriages it seems that there are things in life that make fulfilling each others sexual needs so difficult to make happen. Somethings can simply make one or both partners in the marriage avoiders of intimacy with the other spouse. I will show you some simple to do things that can solve these intimacy problems and even help an sex-avoiding spouse change their tune.

So your frustrated in your Sexless Marriage. Now What?

OK, so in contrast to those blissful times of marriage… There are those evenings when I wake up from dreamless, sound sleep in bed with my wife, because… things did not work out for us to be intimate together when we went to bed.

This is the pain of just one missed opportunity… multiply the frustration of each night in a row that ended up like that…

And, that may be a pretty good estimate of the frustration you are feeling in the extended period of time since both of you were intimate in your marriage. This is too important to put off for even one more day. You need to stop the frustration a sexless marriage feels like, Now!

OK. I know that that sounds a bit dramatic, but the truth is there is some kind of hormonal and chemical misfiring going on when things do not work out for intimacy – especially when you have worked hard to try to make it happen! When it comes to feeling the effects of a “sexless marriage” there is something strange and mysterious at work her.

And, do not get me wrong here. I am perfectly happy with being married to my beautiful and loving wife. As I suspect you also may have experienced some sleepless nights due to his or her turn down of your proposition for sexual intimacy, even if you still have deep feelings of love for your spouse.

Heck, I count myself lucky to have won my wife’s heart and I will fight with my last breath EVERY single day to continue winning her heart. One of the biggest secrets to making my marriage the success that it is is that daily, I wake up and choose Sarah as my bride. I think about our vows together - the life-long promises I made to her almost 8 years ago standing together at sunset on the Gulf Shore of Florida.

I love this woman!

Sex revitalizes a slipping relationship that is suffering from the disjointed pains of daily pressures and stresses and…There are things that a husband and wife can do for each other to jump-start the fires of passion again! For the committed and caring husband, I have tips that can help you know how to answer your question of how to make my wife want me in our sexless marriage!.

A “sexless marriage” doesn’t have to stay a…

“sexless marriage”!

Solutions for a Sexless Marriage: How to Reignite the Passion in your marriage, when a sexless marriage feels passionless

Remove all distractions and take some time off from stressful responsibilities.
That leads me to my next point. Make your sex life a priority by taking time off to de-stress and get some relaxation and relationship time into your life. Leave the kids with a trusted friend this time and get re-acquainted with each other again.

Getting in shape is a great way to build your healthy sex drive, improve your self body image and to try to turn on your spouse with your improved physique.

Remove all distractions (especially electronic) from your bedroom when it is a good time to be intimate and work on your personal relationship. You can do that by checking out some of the valuable advice and tips for doing just that through the link: Keep Marriage Alive.

Communicate with each other when you are trying to be intimate.

You may be surprised how simple it may be to “jump-start” your sex-life if you just tell each other what little or big thing the spouse might do or say to stimulate the interest of the other spouse who is just not ready yet for intimacy. Communication is 95% of the solution!

Solutions for your Sexless Marriage: The honeymoon is over. Can it be reinstated?

The honeymoon is a time of being alone and focusing on each other as a new married couple. As time goes by, responsibilities and demands on each other get the better of both of you. Come on, this is the norm in our fast-paced society. I imaging that people in the quiet country side have a lot more stamina at the end of the day for sex in their marriages. I could be wrong though. It seems that stress is a big intimacy killer in marriages these days.

Any chance you and your wife can get to have a second honeymoon is a great idea. One idea is to pick a spot where the kids and the family can kick back and have fun. Get completely “tired-out”, and then have the rest of the evening to continue the fun of the day, before crashing yourselves. One thing that you can do is check out good deals on hotels, and travel and try to save big.

One such place is Disneyland, their are many others, but for the sake of this article we’ll talk about Disneyland. Cheap Hotels Near Disneyland, could help you do just that. The internet is a great thing to have at your fingertips, huh! For more help click the link: how spice up your sexless marriage!

Reasons for your Sexless Marriage: The Stress of Raising Kids!

I have worked from home for the last four of our almost eight years of marriage together and I pick up on some of the household needs and in taking care of the kids when I am off from work. The sheer mental fracturing of dealing with kids can be overwhelming. I love my kids, but taking care of their needs, rearing them, and dealing with child disputes (we have four kids) can be exhausting! I sympathize for any parent that takes care of their kids and for why they may not have a sex-drive at the end of the day.

Reasons for your Sexless Marriage: No Longer interested?

Sex for some people becomes less and less of an interest. Marriages that are sexless are so for inexplicable reasons that a spouse cannot seem to explain. The issue is when one spouse still needs that close physical and relational intimacy, while the other spouse who has lost interest does not put forth the needed effort to meet their spouse’s need.

The motivation to work on it even if their is no longer any desire (low sex-hormones, religious stigma, shame from the past, medication side-effect, depression, stress, exhaustion, etc) should be for the sake of their spouse and the marriage.

Simply doing one thing a day that you know your spouse would appreciate would help your avoiding spouse to reconnect with you. Considerate acts that are done through simple initiative and thoughtfulness will gain the attention and affections of an avoiding spouse. Especially if that spouse has felt taken for granted or unappreciated in the past.

Reasons for your Sexless Marriage: Seek Counseling!

It is situations like this that prompt many a frustrated and bewildered spouse suffering from sexual and relational withdrawal symptoms to seek outside help and advice.

Sadly, a perfect example of such a case that begs the question of what are some of the reasons for your sexless marriage, was recently brought to lite in an advice column of “Dr. Ruth Westheimer” I read on the Chicago Tribune website as part of a King Fisher Syndicated Column, in it the sexually distressed spouse who feels taken for granted by her sex withholding husband says, “Q: I have been married to my best friend for 14 years, and we are truly stuck with each other, so to speak, being over 50 and having gone through so much together. But we have no sex life, literally.” (Their marriage has everything accept sex).

She goes on to say, “He was much less experienced than I, not nearly as sexual, and he is close to impotent — his problems with”… (sexless marriage), “erectile dysfunction are so bad that we have given up on everything. He’s just very uptight, and I don’t think he has any idea what good sex is, because we have given it up completely.” (Their marriage has everything accept sex). Dr. Ruth’s answers are to seek counseling and to institute non-sexual touching as a means for rebuilding intimacy and sexual attention for one another. Her advise is well advised.

Well, I hope that the advise on this article will help you in many ways to rebuild the intimacy and sex-life of your marriage. I want both of you to share in the joy, satisfaction, and peace-of-mind that you can have through regaining the vibrancy of your sex-life!

Please comment below and share your thoughts or your story! Add to this community of people who are doing great things to build their sex life up!

References:

Westheimer, Ruth, Dr, (12/13/2011). Their marriage has everything except sex. Chicago Tribune, King Features Syndicate. Retrieved from http://www.chicagotribune.com/health/sc-fam-1213-dr-ruth-20111213,0,7412193.story

Bonus:

Personal Memoir on how I made my wife want me

I remember it like it was yesterday… I remember her words, clear as day, I should have expected it. I was striking out in bed right and left. Her words were chilling as she said:

Then as I agreed with what she said… my eyes slowly met the piercingly desperate gaze of my fed-up wife.

“So, let me see if I understand what you are saying here…”. I said.

“How to Fix a Sexless Marriage” After Your Wife Pulls Away!

I took a deep breath, and then re-stated the position my wife had…

About how jealous and hurt she felt about being “replaced” by my pursuit of a new business venture – that I had abandoned her and the kids. You get the picture.

I instantly knew that it was all of those things that I wasn’t doing in my marriage that caused her to treat me with what felt like, well,

cold-indifference
put-downs, and those most excruciating
excuses for no more sex

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Bonus: Additional Sex Secrets

“Sexless Marriage”: How to End Sexual Withholding

If you are sick and tired of being on the receiving end of sexual withholding or any other harsh treatment from your wife, then be proactive and follow up on this bad treatment with initiating a conversation with your wife.

This is a conversation based on coming to terms with her that will mark the beginning of your opportunity to turn this unfortunate situation around. It was during this kind of conversation with my wife that got me starting to wonder, “How to make my wife want me again.”

For me, my conversation with my wife was truly a transformational turning point in my marriage – and having the secrets I learned for how to make my wife want me, can be yours to make your wife want you sexually as well.

“Sexless Marriage”: Removing Her Doubt!

As I told my wife about how I would “make those needed changes” she gave me a look that could kill that immediately communicated, in no uncertain terms;

“Hey buddy, you need to back-up what you say.

Prove to me that you mean what you say!”

That’s the look that a man who is serious about saving his marriage and knowing “how to make my wife want me” – must overcome - to in effect “turn her disappointment and emotional upset” into full speed passion.

“Passion that is only for you!”

When you make her trust you she can open up to about any bad things in her past that have caused her to have a problem with sex with you. Also, you can find out if she has had any grudges against you that the two of you can work through.

Being that kind of take-charge husband will make her attracted to you! Another “how to make my wife want me problem solved!”

“Sexless Marriage”: The Priority Principle / A Wife Pulls Away for a Reason!

The important thing is to make those actions and everything involved in those actions a priority in the way you relate to your wife.

Don’t quit being a guy, she will find that weird, as I am sure you would too. Just show your wife that you love her the way she desires to be shown love, and you will be rewarded in more ways than one!

“Sexless Marriage”: “Do it Right or Lose Her was my Creed!”

Often a wife pulls away when her husband wants sex. That is why I have always been concerned about “how to make my wife want me.” OK…, when I was super busy starting my new business, I did slack off in the romance and intimacy department, but that was not the norm.

If you are a husband who feels that he is in a sexless marriage, then for the answer on “how to make my wife want me” check out: how to make my wife want me in our sexless marriage! See you there!

How to Make My Wife Want Me

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HOW TO MAKE MY WIFE WANT ME:

When you begin to sense that your marriage to your wife is starting to fall apart you must first take emotional courage and accept that you have played a part in the problem. Examine your own character for clues to find answers to your question of, “how to make my wife want me.”

Some months ago, I was too busy with a new business venture to even want to know “how to make my wife want me more”!

OK. So, then one day I decided that I did want to know how to make my wife want me… because, I saw her start to slip away from me. It really started to make me wonder, “what can I do to get my wife to be passionate again”? Truth was intimacy had become a missing ingredient to the success of our marriage.

I’ve walked a mile in your shoes. Maybe that’s not a lot compared to what you feel you are going through right now, but all that matters is that I’ve been there and have truly discovered the joy and satisfaction of rebuilding intimacy… and my marriage with my wife. And, I want others to know that feeling as well.

So I care about the success of your marriage as well as that of my own!

Let’s think about this for a second. You know of married couples with great marriages – who seem to have no problems in the intimacy department. You wonder; “Then why is sex such a Big Problem in my marriage?”

Well, you can discover a whole different approach that allows you to step into her emotional world – within Your Comfort Level. Truth is, for a marriage to be really satisfying there just has to be a good balance of intimacy that goes beyond the sexual satisfaction and sincerely embraces the emotional element of intimacy.

Examining the genuineness of my own character and putting forth sincere effort to put my wife’s needs above my own made my wife see me in a whole new light. And I believe that it can do the same for you too. Oh, and make sure you read through the entire first part of this article for some really cool surprises!

The point I am making here is: If you think about and put into action how strong character and confidence turns your wife on to you… then she will actually want you when you two have time alone.

How? Here’s how.

How to Make My Wife Want Me: What You Will Learn Today

So, in this article you will learn why respectfully meeting her emotional needs first is the answer for improving both of your sexual satisfaction in your marriage.

Her sexual engine will not run when her love tank is dry. That means that her engine will stall if it is not properly lubricated. I’m talking about giving her emotional security here because she will see that you care about her. That you care about her needs, first. Also, when the marriage is cold - You have to warm up her engine, man!

Discover how to do it using incredible secrets available only here, such as:

“Man Up” – Get your house in order And be confident
Ask her how she is “feeling” & Just listening to her answer
Repeat her answer to her to prove that you cared enough to listen
Pursue her daily… by caring & seeking to understand her emotional state of mind
Share at least one thing that matters to you with her through openness and transparency… so both of your worlds can come together…
Very Important!!! — Stop guessing about what your wife likes when it comes to – before intimacy, during intimacy, and after intimacy. Ask her what she likes best. Ask her point-blank what things you say and do that make her feel cherished. Get the answer straight from her… so you know “how to make my wife want me” by knowing what gets her in the mood when you make her feel special.
Then repeat steps 2 – 5. Really spend time focusing on and sincerely applying “her” answers for your question of “how to make my wife want me.”
Romance really does work wonders – she wants to feel desired by you — roses and genuinely emotionally charged romantic words and actions tell her you want her… Not just sex with her.
These are secrets to turning on your wife – including later on – you will learn how to look at her and “touch her” into sex with you, and much, much more!

I really have a lot to say about how I learned these secrets, including a very special marriage saving system that I found that helped me so much on my journey.

But, if you just can’t wait to discover for yourself what I discovered… that helped turn my wife’s attitude toward me completely around, into one of devotion and passion for me and our marriage, then click the link, how to make my wife want me? Sure it can take a bit of work to get her engine lubricated and warmed up, but as you grow in emotional connection with your wife… Sex will be easier to get with your wife, and more frequent to boot!

How to Make My Wife Want Me: Reach Your Wife The Right Way!

You’re a husband who is doing something about your intimacy issues with your wife. That’s a real good thing. Because, you’re a man who really wants to feel strong, manly, and fully capable of being a dynamo of support and pleasure for his wife… a wife who wants to return the favor!

But, if you are being rejected at every pass and feel that your marriage is in danger, then all of those deep needs are replaced by frustration!

Hey, it is no wonder that according to the “National Sex Survey,” 51.1% of married men point out that they are not satisfied with the amount of sex they have in their marriages. When those numbers so closely match the national divorce average, the thought of sex-life trouble really becomes terrifying! So you are not alone,

but what can you do?

OK. Now I am going to take you further down the path of succeeding in your quest of knowing “how to make my wife want me” through little things that are easily overlooked and neglected by husbands everywhere.

If you have tried “everything you can think of” – yet, cannot seem to turn on that switch in her brain that makes her desire you like nothing else, then most definitely this is the MOST IMPORTANT article you will read all year to answer your question of “how to make my wife want me.” It will unlock the secrets of reaching your wife on an ‘Earth Shatteringly’ emotional level.

I want to stress to you that I am talking about a raw emotional and sexual level of intimacy that few men understand, or have the pleasure of experiencing with their wives! So let’s boldly go forward in this quest for greater intimacy in your marriage.

Get to know what it means to have relief from sexual tension & frustration with your wife…

do it through my new secrets to making your wife DESIRE sex with you, and never want to fake a headache ever again! So, right now I will share with you those hidden secrets on how to pursue her with passion that targets her female sexual needs. You can tap into pent-up, but limitless rivers of desire from your wife. The # one secret is that she will respect you if you confidently SHOW her that you want intimate connection with her! Proving that to her will make all the difference in the world.

How I solved the problem of how to make my wife want me more.

The solution that I took for how to make my wife want me… was a simple decision. I decided to stand up and become the kind of man that she could depend on for romance. I did that by treating her in loving ways that would cause her to open up to me and want sex with me again.

That is not easy for most guys; me included. But, I knew the rewards outweigh the effort.

So, I really want to show you the #1 sex secret… and other sex secrets that I used to make my wife want me like crazy!

Here it is:

“How to Make My Wife Want Me with Deep Impact”

1. Passionately Touch her & Look at her

This will help you answer your questions of “How can I get my wife to be intimate with me again?”

The simple truth is that secretly, your wife has a deep psychological need for you as her husband to touch and look at her passionately.

But if you are like most guys locking eyes does not come easy. You love your wife and want her to want you.

However, looking at your wife and keeping eye contact with her are two separate things.

Biologically, your high levels of the hormone testosterone can be to blame for your reluctance to keep eye contact. When you lock eyes it makes you brain trick you into feeling threatened because you perceive it as a threat. Then your old “fight or flight” reflex takes over. Beating your “how to make my wife want me” problem will require overcoming this difficulty. You may have to deliberately overcome the monotony of seeing your wife day in and day out.

Start to look at her differently to liven her visual appeal to you and deliberately make deeper eye contact with her. Seeing her in a new and deeper way should raise your brain’s levels of the hormone dopamine. Those “how to make my wife want me” feel good “highs” like that “UP” you levels of arousal, which in turn stimulate more visual connection.

To know “how to make my wife want me” begin to look deeper and begin to appreciate her inner beauty…

Find a part of her face that you like. Pick any physical characteristic that appeals to you and focus what makes you feel good when you look at it. Then, after you have appreciated it fully, look as deep as you can in her eyes, and tell her about her beauty.

As you become more comfortable with deep eye contact with her she will begin to start to open up to you even if you still do not have a lot to tell her from day to day. It works because your eye contact and expression of how you appreciate her beauty can mean a lot to her.

Understanding that key psychological need is a big key to solving your, “how to make my wife want me” problem.

And, just to show that this really works, here is a pic of Sarah and me after working through these challenges together!

Really, It is her need to feel that her beauty – as a woman – can cause you to notice her and caress her. Show her that her beauty causes you to drop anything else that may have been on your mind, or agenda to simply enjoy her… and want to sweep her off her feet!

1. Passionately Tell her how you feel about her. Tell her what her beauty does to you!

Your wife needs to know what her beauty does to you!

Her desires for you are triggered through romantic words you say to her about the relationship both of you share. Your carefully crafted words and verbal imagery will cause her passions to rise and devotion to your marriage to be solidified!

This helps her to feel safe, secure, and pursued for her beauty.

You will be able to work wonders unleashing the power of her need to have her beauty appreciated in the way you caress her neck, shoulders, thighs, and play with her hair and look into her eyes while listening and talking to her – And that brings me to my next point.

“How to Make My Wife Want Me with more Deep Impact”:

2. Deeply Listen to Her & Look Deeply Into Her Eyes!

As I said before, it really makes a deep impact on her to engage her with deep, even “piercing” eye contact. The point I want to make here to help you in your quest to answer your question of how to make my wife want me is that strong eye contact speaks volumes of sincerity. This works even when you are at a loss for words at that moment.

You want your eyes to communicate that you are trustworthy, caring, and the right man for her passions to be unleashed upon.

Then she can feel secure enough to open up to you about why she has not been interested in “wanting you” or wanting to have sex with you. Remember that laundry list of possible causes for why a wife may lose her sexual desire for sex with you? Well, now you will find out why she thinks her desire for you is gone and then something can be done about it.

“How to Make My Wife Want Me”: Your level of leadership as her husband will determine how good your intimacy in your marriage with your wife will really get

The more that you show confidence, caring control, and assertiveness, the more your wife will respond in-kind! It is that simple. Your wife is wired to passionately respect, love, and satisfy you in response to the level of security and love she gets from you!

That is why as soon as I realized that my marriage was in trouble, and intimacy was only one of the symptoms of something much more devastating, I did my homework on the internet and found the marriage saving system and 6 day mini course, Save My Marriage Today, by Amy Waterman. I gave me a lot of the prospective that I am sharing with you today and it helped me save my marriage, for good!

Check out it right away and see for yourself!

Remember, it is a strong marriage, pleasure, and respect that you want and this is what “Save My Marriage Today” offers!

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NEW BONUS Material:

How to Make My Wife Want Me: It’s time for the Truth

Fellas, listen up: Truth is, you hold the keys that can open the lock on her sexual desires for you.

And begging, pleading, and demanding ain’t it!

The truth is . . .that kind of craziness will only turn her off more.

So, why is it so hard to find respect at home, when you have people listening to you and respecting you at work?

Funny thing is, the answer is found in the simple statement: “It’s time for mutual respect!”

It’s one of your deepest needs, and if you respect her “emotionally driven” sexual needs first, then you will fill her love tank, lubricate her engine, and set her desire for you to overdrive.

Respect, its all a part of a healthy sex-life with your wife.

“How to Make My Wife Want Me”: Facing the Truth of the Matter!

However, your reality right now is that you’re in the middle of a nasty “dry-spell” with your wife. Instead of both of you heating up the bedroom on a regular basis, you have been given turn-down after turn down – You lie awake in the night wondering “how to make my wife want me!”

“I am too tired”
“I have a lot going on in my head”
“I’m stressed at work”
“I have a headache, stomach ache, backache” . . .
“It’s just not the right time”

Well, are you tired of hearing these EXCUSES?

Are you tired of having to BEG, PLEAD, and crush your own dignity in the process of trying to get your wife in bed with you?

Do you want to do something about it, without having to go elsewhere to find it and in return disrespect her!? Believe it or not, YOU CAN!

Because, if you do not help her regain her sexual desire for you, then a solution may come too late…

Does this worry you?

Now I am repeating myself a bit here, but this “how to make my wife want me” advice is too important Not to emphasize once again. She will go dry and have little to no sexual desire for you unless you:

Sincerely ask her how she is doing
Listen to her answer
Ask her how you can help
Ask her to tell you exactly how you can help her to want greater intimacy with you!
And, pursue her with passion based on the truths of female sexual needs that I will soon share with you!

I found out that pleasing my wife was possible and doing that stuff really made her want me!

OK. I know that when you read this you probably do not want to hear all about me! Right?

Instead, think about your relationship and troubles trying to get your wife interested in wanting you and think about how you can apply what I have to share to your situation.

Because, if you want to unleash her desire for you, then listen closely to what I have to share with you.

How to Make My Wife Want Me: Digging a Bit Deeper… starting with a question to you!

Let’s dig a little bit here, and get at some of the reasons why you are wondering, “how to make my wife want me?” Have you started to think the following to yourself?

“Somewhere along the way my wife has lost her desire for sex with me… While I’m going nuts in the mean time.”

- Wives often have sexual peaks and lulls that seem to defy reason. However, there are many reasons that can cause her to turn you down for sex when you want it most. Everything from:

low sex-hormone levels that go up and down with her monthly cycle
depression
stress
having kids
self esteem and self-image issues
medication side-effects
AND… the Big one affecting most marriages, she can’t become aroused unless her emotional and sexual needs are FIRST met by you the husband!

All of these can lower her sex-drive… & the list goes on!

“How to make my wife want me”: The Real Pain her sexual withholding causes

If you can have that intimacy with your wife back, then you can have the kind of pleasure that will make you feel accomplished and respected by her as well.

All of that is wrapped up in your search for answers about, “How to make my wife want me again!”

“How to Make My Wife Want Me”: Hey, Its Easier Than You Might Think!

The solution to your dilemma is easier and more natural to your relationship with your wife than you think. I will continue focus on the techniques that show you how to best touch her, and look at her while you listen to her in the bonuses at the end.

I have to stress that it is important to show confidence in the way you relate to your wife. While you do that focus on doing the technique I mentioned earlier that shows you how to best look at her while you listen to her.

It is the “best way” that gives you the “best possible influence to make her want you like crazy!

“How to Make My Wife Want Me”: The Feeling of Freedom from Sexual Frustration!

Just imagine being able to turn her on throughout the course of the day, or just at the right time. It is an unimaginable, yet incredible feeling of freedom. It is the feeling of being a man that is respected!

You Can Make This Happen!

Now you know how you can actually do the things that she actually wants from you in a way that will unlock her pent-up passion for you. If you have been reading along, then good for you. You have a lot of solid wisdom to act on. In fact, “how to make my wife want me” is all about the very act of making her truly feel loved and cherished. That will break the damn that is holding back her passion. So Get Started Right Now!

P.S.

Here are the bonus’ that I told you about:

“How to Make My Wife Want Me“: Talk Lovingly and Honestly with her!

“How to Make My Wife Want Me“: Touch her with purpose, then passion!

“How to Make My Wife Want Me“: One Way to Prove You are a Confident Man

P.S.S.
In case you missed it, you definitely want to scroll a little ways up and check out the awesome tip I gave subtitled:

“How to Make My Wife Want Me with Deep Impact”: Passionately Touch her & Look at her

, which is followed up with:

“How to Make My Wife Want Me with more Deep Impact”: Deeply Listen to Her & Look Deeply Into Her Eyes!

You will not believe how simple and easy it is to turn on your wife to want to passionately have sex with you!

So that said, please leave a comment.

Tell others about your story! About either your journey to answer your question of, “how to make my wife want me”, or offer your advice to help those men who still are stuck and in a rut.

How to Fix a Relationship

Discover the Perfect Answer to How to Fix a Relationship! — That Won’t Make Your Head Explode from Frustration!

Do you want to fix your relationship with your ex – or – soon to be separated spouse?

Do you want to get back all of the love and companionship that felt so awesome, but aren’t sure how you can pull it off?

Discover how rebuilding passion for each other and treating each other as partners can help you answer how to fix a relationship.

How to Fix a Relationship:

Answers from a Man Who Fixed His!
I can relate to your pain, because just a few months ago I was asking the same question concerning how to fix a relationship. Before I fixed my relationship with my wife, the mere thought of her being in the arms of another man caused deep anguish– and a longing to get her back in “My arms.” You too can end those heart wrenching emotions that rip you apart and suck life right out of you. Do you want to get back that feeling of forgiveness and affection from your mate or significant other by learning how to fix a relationship?

Yes?

Good! You need help knowing how to delicately share your feelings with your mate or significant other when it comes to engaging in your quest to fix your relationship. Knowing how to fix a relationship begins with examining your own motives for fixing the relationship and requires sincerity to pull it off. Do this so that your loved one will joyfully embrace you again. Using a sincere devotion to caring for her needs aided my efforts to fix my relationship, and those activities can help you fix yours too.

How to Fix a Relationship Tip #1: The Passion Priority

You will soon learn how your relationship can be fixed through communicating your feelings about how you have been treated in the relationship. And, you will discover how proving that you care most about your spouse or significant other as a partner is the answer to how to fix a relationship. However, to make it all work we need to first look at your motivation for making it happen.

If your relationship is in trouble and coldness has made your relationship experience dull and unbearable, then lack of motivation to patch things up could cause your efforts on mastering “how to fix a relationship” to backfire.

Instead of drudging along, risking the possibility of ending up bickering amongst yourselves when you try to patch thing up between you, try seeking renewed passion for one another and life in general by getting away from it all – focus on having low-stress fun together.

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Go out on a date together at least once a week
Focus on helping each other get through stressful times together
Start a project or fun activity together, for which both of you enjoy
Exercise together, fun physical activities lower cortisol “stress hormone” levels
Flirt and take steps to promote sexual intimacy
Discover together the joys of daily focusing on how to fix a relationship together

How to Fix a Relationship: Rekindle Romance

Rekindling the romance in your relationship that you once shared together will motivate both of you to “give it everything you’ve got” and actually help rebuild your relationship again. In order to re-ignite passion back into your relationship remember those “fine” qualities of your partner that turned you on.

Return to those first phases of your relationship and have fun with reigniting that same heart pounding passion that accompanied those first moments for inspiration as a visual tool for how to fix a relationship. Use that passion to help you want to fix it so that you can grow to love each other for whom each of you are as individuals and as a long-term partnership.

How to Fix a Relationship: “Relationship Recovery” System

There is so much to gain by building your own self esteem and then using methods of attraction that make your spouse see positive change in you. Try the Relationship Recovery system for yourself. I highly recommend it as a way to know how to fix a relationship that you can’t bare to lose.

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How to Fix a Relationship Tip #2: The Partnership Priority

Once you have got your passion filled motivation ready to go; focus that passion towards your first goal of becoming a team again. Make your desire to be a team again the focus of your relationship saving efforts. That is the way to go from bitterness to blissfulness through your efforts to to find out how to fix a relationship?

If you want the relationship, then just think of how much closer together you could be to your partner in your relationship if you start thinking like, well… a partner for them. Treating your spouse or significant other like an equal partner will garner love and support for you and your interests as you first invest heavily in the best interest of your mate. You will see that helping each other creates common goals both of you can feel good about.

You can take it one step further and focus your attentions on the needs of your spouse as your partner with the help of relationship problem advice. I believe that out of the many e courses and programs designed to help restore relationships, that the “Relationship Recovery” system by Rachel Rider is ‘just the right one” for handling the many answers for how to fix a relationship that is broken, and I highly recommend it.

It can help you to examine your own feelings about yourself and the phase of the relationship through which you and your significant other are working through. Also, it helps you to understand and reconnect relationally to your partner by first becoming a better “you” and then a better friend and mate to your partner. This process should help your ex or lost love to want to be your partner again! There is some great stuff inside the “Relationship Recovery” course, which I highly recommend for anyone who is struggling with knowing how to fix a relationship. Check it out through the link

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How to Fix a Relationship: My Story and Your Success

I want to let you know that I was in a similar situation as you. Just a few short months ago my wife was ready to call it quits if some things did not change for the better. Through the relationship building principles that now my marriage is very satisfying and yours can be too.

Long story short, she threatened to divorce me for always working and never being around; that changed everything! This kind of “wake-up call” can cause you to see life in a whole new light. It certainly brought the pain of possibly losing her to the front of my mind. I changed my priorities from the fear of “losing the farm” to the fear of “losing the love of my life”! Discovering the partnership priority principle really helped me figure out how to fix a relationship.

The problems that led to our troubles have not all been resolved; in fact we are still struggling with many of life’s troubles. However, now we are handling these problems with a lot of mutual support for each other. Also, we have passion to spare in working through these relationship issues together. This is such a good thing that I want to share these relationship secrets with you for the sake of helping you know how to fix a relationship so you can experience that same happiness that my wife and I now enjoy!

Keep Marriage Alive:

Dedicated to helping you know How to Fix a Relationship

That is why after saving my marriage; I started ‘Keep Marriage Alive’

“Keep Marriage/Reignite Passion” — I decided to share the lessons I learned, and to share the resources that have helped save my marriage. I believe what I have learned can help yours too.

How to Fix a Relationship: Study his or her Life History

Learn all that you can about his or her life, his or her circumstances of life while they grew up. Use that knowledge to first, understand where your mate comes from when he or she behaves in a way that offends or hurts you. Having that background knowledge allows you to sympathize instead of react harshly towards your spouse when doing so is unfounded.

How to Fix a Relationship: Be positive

Beyond that, it is also important for you to maintain a positive “view-point” of your spouse or significant other. For the sake of promoting your endeavor to best figure out how to fix a relationship, overlook the shortcomings of your spouse or significant other. Rather, you could choose to look at the inner person that is the true person, whom you have built a relationship. It takes mental preparation and a conscious decision to do so, but viewing your spouse in a positive light and making them feel good about themselves when talking to them is “relational money” invested in a “relational stock” that pays extraordinary dividends.

How to Fix a Relationship: One Talk at a Time

See if your mate or significant other will make up a list about you with a positive column and a negative column. If your spouse or significant other is ready for some true feedback from you, then do the same for him or her. Then compare the pros and cons on both of your lists.

How to Fix a Relationship: Pros and Cons List

The name of the game now is to commit to encouraging each other about the positives each of you came up with and try not to bicker about the negatives that each of you came up with. Once all static between both of you is cleared, make a pledge to each other to correct as many of the agreed upon negatives on each of your lists as humanly possible.

In this pledge to each other make sure to communicate and “fight-fair” if it comes to having an argument together. The strategy of communication of using “I feel” statement and avoiding “You did” statements when having a fight and in all communications is the basis for any solid union.

How to Fix a Relationship: Do Things Together

Next, extend your pledge to commit further to building upon your shared hobbies and interests. Get into shape together, go to church, go on dates, and if you really want to; get to know each of your friends and families together. Sometimes a little sacrifice goes with successfully loving through working on how to fix a relationship.

Make your marriage relationship a delight for the two of you. A relationship that is built to last is built upon the quality of mutual honor, respect, and satisfaction of both partners who agree to work together.

I also want to share some well earned secrets for avoiding some of the most common mistakes for restoring a marriage to better help you win back your loved one in a report I have prepared through the form below. Just fill in your name and your best e-mail address and as a thank you for checking out the “Relationship Recovery” system through my How to Fix a Relationship link, I will send you the 15 Marriage Restoration Mistakes to Avoid… and What to do Instead report, Absolutely Free!

Getting Back Together After A Break Up

Get Hope for getting back together after a break up — Win Back Love without Begging or Pleading!

Do you want to get back together with your ex — or — separated spouse, but aren’t sure how to do it? I know a little bit about how you feel. My business pursuits got in the way of my wife’s and my marriage. She threatened to divorce me if things did not change.

I made the changes to how much time I would spend working on my business. Also, I made changes that made her emotional and relational needs my #1 priority. I did this for the reasons of making amends for my mistakes. Sure, I cringed at the thought of seeing her with someone else, but the motivation for my efforts was to prove to her that we had what it took to work our issues out. I did this in time to save our marriage from divorce.

But, before I got my marriage on track, seeing other happy couples together caused deep pain– and a longing to get her back in my arms. You can end those heartbreaking feelings that tear you apart and drain the life from you. Do you to stop your divorce or split up? Do you want that feeling of companionship and love again by getting back together after a break up?

“Yes.” OK. Lets Get to it!

Getting Back Together After a Break Up through One Unconventional System!

You are asking for help knowing how to tactfully share your heart for winning him or her back, sincerity is a start, sensitivity to the needs of your spouse are a must. In order to help you out, I will highlight 2 tips that helped my wife and me instantly in our efforts of getting back together after a break up. AND, I will share my recommendation of the “Magic of Making Up” system!

Getting Back Together After a Break Up – Tip #1 Respect your spouse’s feelings

Getting back together after a break up can be a trying task to undertake, but it doesn’t HAVE to be difficult. We all make mistakes that hurt others and cause relationships to break up, but the beauty of getting back together after a break up is that the process of reuniting becomes an all new chance to do it right this time around! Many marriages survive to tell the story of how they saved their marriage when they faced their problems together. They survive circumstances such as stressful work and life issues, unresolved conflict, disrespect, and mistreatment. Getting back together after a break up may seem hopeless, but many marriages who use methods based on understanding the other person in the relationship, rather than tactics of desperation see positive results in time.

The first thing to do is decide to honor and respect his or her feelings on the matter of divorce or separation. Take that warning seriously. Even if an “I want a divorce” statement is made in jest by your spouse. Take the “jest” seriously as a warning sign that all is not well in paradise! If you are like I was, I had no idea that I was neglecting my wife and taking her for granted. All I could think about were my needs. Rather, focus on the needs of your estranged spouse. You can use these tips to help you focus on his or her needs. Also, these tips will help your situation and make it as smooth as possible

With all sincerity, tell him or her all of the things that you perceive that you did to contribute to the trouble
Try to relate back to him or her what you recognize as their feelings in those issues
Also, try to express to him or her that you ‘validate’ their feelings in those issues
Show humility and immediately tell him or her that you are sorry for any hurtful things that you recognize that you did to hurt the relationship – in other words own up to your part of the problems
Ask him or her for their input into how the marriage relationship suffered
Ask him or her to open up to you concerning their feelings of past hurts and problems… to instantly get your hands on the “Magic of Making Up” click the link below

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Getting Back Together After a Break Up – Tip #2 Take Small Steps

True, it only took a day or two to turn things around with my wife. I am truly fortunate to have saved my marriage in a short amount of time. Still, it was this one tip that I am going to reveal to you now from the program, “Magic of Making Up” made by T.W. Jackson, that truly made my efforts genuinely win her heart back. You see the “Magic of Making Up” helps marriages find love in one another again through methods that have sincere heart bonding effects for those with a sincere desire to honor and respect their relationship. It takes respect for your spouse to make these methods work. Just making excuses to string along your relationship for maybe one more month will eventually end in failure. This step will help you to patiently respect your spouse for good!

In fact, you could say that I am still working on saving my marriage, little-by-little, every day. I do this because hearing the “D word” from my wife “scared me straight” from neglecting my responsibilities to my wife.

You see, this one tip that I followed from the ‘Magic of Making Up” system was pivotal in making getting back together after a break up succeed. That tip is to not only communicate how I you are going to solve the problems of your marriage but to…

Take the measures to Get your spouse Back – Only by taking Baby Steps to instill trust in your spouse again.

Basically, In my case, I chose not to try to take too big of a step to set things right with her. This approach can give you an opportunity not to bite off more than you can chew, while you slowly build trust in your mate. Live up to each promise you make, or take small steps to meet and reconnect through numerous small and safe encounters.

I know that you want your estranged spouse or ex to ‘forgive you’ and ‘take you back’ on the SPOT! But, where is the trust building in that? Give him or her time to process through his or her feelings, make up his or her mind about the relationship, and to help him or her regain confidence in you at his or her pace. This allows for a loving re-bonding process to be experienced little-by-little.

Instead, seizing hold of an opportunity to share coffee with your ex is a much safer step than “getting back together after a break up”…and even more harmless than ‘trying to coax your ex into having a date’.

Still…

Sharing some coffee at a coffee shop may even be too big of an expectation of your spouse too early in the game. Instead, would you consider trying to open up the possibility of bringing back your loved one to you with a much smaller step?

In truth …

It is recommended in the “Magic of Making Up” that Many times…showing sensitivity to an ex’s emotional space requirements by taking one step ‘back’ is the smartest course of action… Here’s a video that explains how.

Make Getting Back Together After a Break Up

a “Kiss and Make Up” Reality!

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Only the best of Intentions for Getting Back Together After a Break Up

My insensitivity to my wife’s needs almost cost us our marriage. I did not want to be alone in life; and still don’t. Is it worth it to you to stop the feeling of loss and regret over problems by solving your problems and bringing your marriage to a place of forgiveness? Are you dedicated to getting back together after a break up? If you want to restore your marriage by getting back together after a break up by pursuing your spouse for the right reasons, then your marriage can be restored too!

At first, intentions for getting back together with an ex may be to satisfy personal needs. However, successfully getting back together after a break up will work much better if your intentions shift to that of focusing on the needs of your spouse and for the sake of saving your marriage.

That is why after saving my marriage; I started ‘Keep Marriage Alive’. I decided to share the lessons I learned, and to share the resources that have helped save my marriage. I believe what I have learned can help yours too.

I also want to share some well earned secrets for avoiding some of the most common mistakes for restoring a marriage to better help you win back your loved one in a report I have prepared through the form below. Just fill in your name and your best e-mail address, and as a thank you for checking out the “Magic of Making Up” system through my Getting Back Together After a Break Up link I will send you the 15 Marriage Restoration Mistakes to Avoid… and What to do Instead report, Absolutely Free!

50-50 Marriage

Stop Your FIGHT! Discover How to Have a “50-50 Marriage” Peace Pact Now! — All Without Crushing Legal Fees!

“50-50 Marriage” – Mutual Love is Possible!
Right now, a “50-50 marriage” sounds pretty good, because power struggles are tearing you-two apart. You are searching for answers to help remove the frustration you are feeling concerning the conflict between you and your spouse that seems to be taking over your marriage.

You could even be saying to yourself, “I am really desperate to save my marriage and get peace back in our marriage.” Somehow the disagreements have caused more and more hurt and misunderstanding than simple disagreements should create in what used to be your happy marriage.

I can relate, because in the beginning of my marriage, my wife and I fought about how each of us felt embarrassed or aggravated concerning the way the other spouse did things. Each of us felt degraded by the other, concerning who each of us were as individual people. We were selfish and mostly used each other for our own purposes. That made it impossible for us to mutually give freely and lovingly to each other what each other really needed. We weren’t “50-50 marriage” partners for each other.

It seemed that all we could share about each other together were just our disappointments with each other. When your conflicts started to become hurtful, I bet that you were feeling the same way as we did, and you feel that a 50-50 marriage that you promised each other at the wedding alter slipping away.

A “50-50 Marriage” requires marriage building help!

We at “keep Marriage Alive” recommend using the “partnership” principles of successful “50-50 marriage” negotiations provided here, along with additional resources through the resource links that will help the two of you strengthen the relationship with every single successfully “50-50 marriage” negotiated conflict.

You can check out the resource featured through the following link; a complete marriage problem solving and relationship building downloadable eBook, that can help you end marriage conflict dissatisfaction, replacing it with renewed bonding and peace by helping you make common out-of control marriage problems (finances, sex, communication, and stress management) a thing of the past. It also includes marriage relationship building materials and the special, 6-day mini-course to rebuild the harmony right back into your marriage by clicking the link Have a Happier “50-50 Marriage”

50-50 Marriage: Principles of Successful Negotiations

In successful negotiations, the key to being able to have a 50-50 marriage is deciding to respect your spouse while understanding the way your spouse thinks. That is a choice to Love him or her Deeply! It is crucial for you to understand what your spouse really wants. That means if you figure-out what they are willing to “give” in order to “get” you can negotiate with them at a better position of compromise. This means that you can negotiate with your spouse starting from his or her minimum, yet still acceptable, desired-outcome.

In marriage that is the make-or-break point of a spouse’s willingness to negotiate in a marriage in crisis. If your partner cannot at least get ‘that’ level of support in the relationship, he or she will probably refuse to negotiate any further. Demanding more compromise beyond ‘that’ point will likely cause him or her to give-up and end the 50-50 marriage negotiations or the marriage. In marriage, that point is when the partner expects you to stop being you, as the person you are inside.

The second key to successful “50-50 marriage” negotiations involves understanding those same points; what I call the minimum yet optimal-desired compromise-point both you and your spouse are willing to have compromised. To make it work you need to see if this point in how far you are willing to negotiate will work with how your spouse is willing to go. Beyond that point the two-of you in your 50-50 marriage negotiations will get nowhere.

“50-50 Marriage” Respect

The third rule of successful 50-50 marriage negotiation is understanding that absolutely everyone wants to be respected and “50-50 marriage” negotiations will break down if there is a lack of respect from one or both of the parties.

The last part about successful 50-50 marriage negotiations is that as stated prior, each party cannot expect the other party to change who they are and how they do things, the point here is that successful negotiation can only come if each party is willing to change how they treat each other and not put undue expectations on each other; to meet each other in the middle. Can you see how these negotiation principles relate to the success of your marriage relationship since you and your partner are no doubt very different as a man and as a woman? This is a principle that you must take into account when you think, “how can I have a 50-50 marriage“.

“50-50 Marriage”: How to make the marriage work

You and your partner can, without feeling used, manipulated and hurt by each other, find that while each of you consider, “how can I have a 50-50 marriage that can be saved and what are the needs of my partner” each of you need to make changes in the way you treat and deal with each other so that both of you can say, “I have done what it takes to have a 50-50 marriage while saving my marriage.”

Having the help of a marriage building eBook and 6 day mini-eCourse designed to walk each of you step-by-step through resolving many marriage problems will help both of you to succeed in your efforts. I highly recommend that you both find out how this is possible in your marriage; check out this helpful resource by clicking the link below

You Can have a 50-50 Marriage

Marital Success Can Be Negotiated!

How To Talk To Your Wife

Things a husband could say when trying to Keep Marriage Alive

It could Go Something Like This

For the guys who are sticking there neck out and doing everything in their power to “Man Up” and take control of their marriage here is an exclusive list of points of discussion you could use while talking to your wife. So, this is a possible reference for you husbands who want to introduce the ideas of KeepMarriageAlive.COM to their wives in a discussion format. Use it as a resource to help you guys out in case you need any idea suggestions.

What Goes Around Comes Around

“Honey, marriages that are comprised of two people only concerned about their own individual needs being met is one of the biggest reasons that marriages break apart. Breaking that pattern is the key to saving our marriage.”

“Babe, the number one reason infidelity in marriage occurs is because someone in the marriage is not getting his or her personal needs satisfied. You see dear, that situation eventually sets each marriage partner up for infidelity in marriage to occur. The problem is not the fact that individual needs are not being met in the marriage. That is just a symptom of the greater problem, complete selfishness of both partners and indifference to the needs of the other spouse are a big part of the problem. Because each of our individual needs are not being satisfied causes the whole vicious cycle to perpetuate in the marriage; getting in the way of saving our marriage.”

The law of Reciprocity

“Dear, thinking about the needs of the other mate is the answer to the problem. Think about it, babe, neither of us are complete narcissists, if I focus as much of my concentration on serving the complete needs of you (my wife), then in turn I bet you will be better inclined to return the favor.”

“We can build up our communication skills so that each of us understands each others needs, the Best way to get my needs (needs that are not dire emergency needs that is) taken care of, especially in the hopes of saving our marriage, is to completely drop them from my agenda and focus on your needs, wholly.”

” Honey, the beauty of the way this works is that I will probably end up with my needs being met by you (a very grateful wife). I bet that you will work twice as hard to please me and take care of my needs, saving our marriage in the process.”

Reciprocity adds spice to the marriage

“As a result, each of us is motivated to spice up the marriage further and further along the positive cycle in our marriage. Guess what! It can only get better and better.”

“Babe, the secret of accomplishing this is thinking of our relationship as an investment in both of your future together.”

Counseling To End Marriage Dysfunction

This article deals with the uneasy subject of marriage and family dysfunction. Dysfunction that can hide within the four walls of the supposed safety of the home. Marriage and family dysfunction can take many forms, alcoholism and/or drug abuse, enabling the alcoholic and/or drug addicted member of the family, spouse abuse, child abuse, sexual abuse, chronic instability and arguments/disagreements, psychological/verbal abuse, adultery, and extreme unrealistic expectations shared between the members of the family.

There have been so many personal revelations of one family’s alleged dysfunction. These revelations of alleged and yes, unproven sexual abuse brought out into the open since the Orlando, Florida Casey Anthony trial began earlier this summer, 2011 concerning the trail of lies a person can blaze and the tragedy that can result. Casey Anthony was charged with the murder of her daughter, Caylee and obstruction of justice for lying to police concerning her background and the missing status of her daughter, when in fact Caylee had already been already deceased.

Casey Anthony has now been acquitted of the charges of 1st degree murder, manslaughter, and aggravated child abuse due to the jury finding states evidence not substantial enough to convict for these heavy charges. After the highly publicized trial has ended, we as a nation concerned for finding answers and justice for this tragic loss of young life are left holding such revelations of dysfunction concerning this now well-known family.

In the article Jesse Grund, Casey Anthony’s ex-fiance calls family a ‘carnival of dysfunctionality’. The article states, “In an interview with NBC’s Matt Lauer, Grund says he witnessed the dynamics between Casey, her parents, and her brother, and says that “there is no way Casey goes back home.”

“There is no way they have any semblance of a normal family life,” he says.

Grund says he fell in love with a 19-year-old Casey Anthony in 2005, and at one point, he believed that he was Caylee’s father.

On Tuesday, Casey was acquitted of murdering her 2-year-old child.

Lauer asked Grund what he would tell Casey, if he saw her today. “I would tell her she needs to repent, because at the end of the day, she is going to have to answer for why Caylee isn’t on this earth anymore.”

A revelation like this gives up pause to wonder, if only they had sought expert help to solve their family dysfunction problems would things have turned out differently for their family situation, namely, the death of Caylee and the public spotlight on their family.

Reference:

7/6/2011). Jesse Grund, Casey Anthony’s ex-fiance calls family a ‘carnival of dysfunctionality‘. Huffpost Crime. huffingtonpost.com. Retrieved from http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/07/06/jesse-grund-casey-anthony_n_891351.html

How to Rekindle a Relationship

Intimate Love!

How to Rekindle a Relationship and Make IT ‘WOW’! Even when Life Comes at you Hardest!

Is needing intimacy again in your relationship filling your mind with desire for your spouse that is being unfulfilled… driving you to desperation?

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Sometimes sexual dysfunction and/or anger and resentment can hinder sexual intimacy in your marriage. Sometimes not being able to forgive in a marriage can cause withholding of sexual and emotional intimacy from a spouse. No matter what the cause of the sexual problem you are facing in your marriage you can have hope to OWN the confidence and capability to make your spouse think about being intimate with you, non-stop!

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Believe it or not, if you focus on mastering how to rekindle a relationship you will feel a Real Boost in the happiness you feel in other areas of life. Absolutely, physically expressive love and sexual intimacy is essential for the fulfillment of your loving marriage relationship.

Take Every Opportunity to Celebrate Every Victory to gain an Intimate Marriage

Marriage is a celebration of the union of two unique people coming together to love, support and grow together to continually become one in an intimate marriage, which includes knowing how to rekindle a relationship. Every chance to push aside the mundane routine of life to do something special to celebrate small or large victories should be seized as an opportunity to have a celebration. These frequent celebrations can change the mood of the entire marriage and lend power to an intimate marriage.

Communicate Intimate Love

Extending celebration to the bedroom with intimate love can cause time together in sexual expression to be even more enjoyable. You could help prepare the environment for romance by helping each other tidy up, set the lights “just right” to create a romantic glow, go to a fancy restaurant, or have the kids (if they are old enough) stay at a friend’s house so that you can have an uninterrupted time to communicate with each other intimate words of love.

“Fool Around ” at Every Opportunity

Steal away any chance you can get to “Fool Around” at every opportunity. It will help build the sexual love mood and will help prepare each of you for your time of intimacy together that will culminate in all of the built up excitement. If you just can’t wait and want to skip ahead to the “500 Lovemaking Tips” eBook and guide click the link How to Rekindle a Relationship!

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Learning From the Weiner Debacle

The situation of marital cheating is age-old. The pain of dealing with the realization that your spouse has been unfaithful and giving to someone else what is due to you,. No matter how good or bad the condition of the relationship is when cheating within marriage occurs, the mental and emotional pain is immense .

The advent of cellular and social web2.0 networking technology has made the ability to maintain an elicit affair as a secret from a spouse more accessible to a cheating spouse. However, as the now resigned Rep. Anthony Weiner, who was caught “sexting” or sending explicit photos of himself to admirers who showed sexual interest in the NY Representative. Of course doing such a thing is risking political suicide.

Weiner resigned with the following statement, “”I hearby resign as the Member of the House of Representatives for New York’s Ninth Congressional District effective at midnight, Tuesday, June 21, 2011,” wrote Weiner.

“It has been an honor to serve the people of Queens and Brooklyn.”

Soon after the House convenes for legislative business at 2 pm on Tuesday, the clerk will read that letter, meaning the curtain will close on the New York Democrat’s career in Congress.” (Weiner Officially Resigns).

It is poignant to show that such behavior is dangerous in professional circles, politics, and marriage. The information that using social media to maintain the relationship of an affair provides a very traceable information trail should be a good way to prevent divorce in your marriage. This is what the NY Times had to say on the matter of social media’s power and making bad decisions concerning its use, “We use new technologies in romantic relationships all the time,” said Dr. Baym. “When two people meet and they’re interested in developing the relationship, they go to text messages really fast as a way to safely negotiate the relationship.”

Therapists debate whether the Internet has facilitated more infidelity — after all, men and women have been betraying their vows since marriage began. Still, slight shifts in infidelity rates among young people and women suggest that digital media may be playing a role. Anecdotally, therapists report that electronic contact via Facebook, e-mail and text messages has allowed women in particular to form more intimate relationships.

“There’s no question that the Internet has increased the availability of alternative romantic partners, whether it’s flirtation, reuniting with old lovers or having texting sexual relationships,” Dr. Baym said. “The Internet dramatically expands the scope of potential people that we can meet.”

But while online communication may make it easier to cheat, it also leaves a digital trail that makes it more likely you’ll be caught.” (Digital Flirting).

It is KeepMarriageAlive.com’s sincere hope that cheated on spouses will have a new sense of power in the fight they may have to wage concerning the fidelity of their spouse, because knowledge is power. Power for those who are duped and cheated by dishonest spouses. It is a good thing when cheated on spouses know and are able to detect signs of cheating in his or her spouse.

Cheating is something that happens in this world, having the power to be able to have peace of mind due to being able to take control and track down a cheating spouse’s activities can help the cheated on have renewed dignity and power. Learning from the Weiner debacle is that stepping out of bounds and using social media irresponsibly can make even the mightiest of people to fall from power. Likewise, it shows that a cheating spouse can be found out and dealt with.

Sources:

Dupree, Jamie, (6/21/2011). Weiner Officially Resigns. Atlanta Journal Constitution Blogs. http://www.ajc.com/. Retrieved from http://blogs.ajc.com/jamie-dupree-washington-insider/2011/06/21/weiner-officially-resigns/?cxntfid=blogs_jamie_dupree_washington_insider

Parker-Pope, Tara, (6/13/2011). Digital Flirting – Easy To Do and Easy To Get Caught. New York Times.com. http://well.blogs.nytimes.com. Retrieved from http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/06/13/digital-flirting-easy-to-do-and-to-get-caught/?OI_CQ_3_OID_40527=&OI_CQ_5_OID_40527=&OI_CQ_1_OID_40527=&OI_CQ_8_OID_40527=&OI_CQ_9_OID_40527=&OI_CQ_14_OID_40527=&OI_CQ_3_OID_29967=&OI_CQ_5_OID_29967=&OI_CQ_1_OID_29967=&OI_CQ_14_OID_29967=&OI_CQ_1_OID_53691=&OI_CQ_12_OID_53691=__&OI_CQ_3_OID_54229=&OI_CQ_5_OID_54229=&OI_CQ_1_OID_54229=&OI_CQ_14_OID_54229=&OFFER_LIST=40527&OFFER_LIST=29967&OFFER_LIST=53691&OFFER_LIST=54229&OI_WPARAM_URL=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nytimes.com%2Fmarketing%2Fregistration%2FnoOffer.html&OI_WPARAM_WID=myaccount.nytimes.com13081994870099616459860696767&OI_WPARAM_LOGID=1413598186&OI_WPARAM_CO=USA&OI_WPARAM_IP=68.205.220.233&OI_WPARAM_PID=11435247&submit1=Submit+%26+Complete+Your+Registration#preview