All this is based on my experience helping dazed and confused husbands — Guys who are trying very hard to win the heart of their wife back. This is not an indictment on the character of wives, nor is it meant to be “wife-bashing” in nature. This is about taking a drastic measure to win the heart of a fed-up wife back.
I think you have got the guts to take this problem head on. If you think you have the guts to fix a marriage that she is almost ready to walk out on, then you can have mastery over…
Waking up from a Coma
Let me ask you a question. Is saving your marriage number one on your top 10 to do list?
If it is not, then changing that fact in a hurry will be the first step you take toward saving your marriage. Because, if you do value your marriage – If you have made saving it a priority in your life, then you will have the back bone needed to step up to the plate to get her back!
Many men that I talk to share common points of disaster that lead to their wives leaving them.
Their situation usually involves the gradual slow down of communication and intimacy in their marriage with their wife. The love grows a little cold – but he is so busy working and providing that he barely notices. Don’t fool yourself. She always notices, especially if he hasn’t.
This ‘comatose’ state of affairs most marriages slip into is the perfect environment for her to start thinking about calling it quits.
The “Couch” Trip
All it takes is one big mistake to fuel the destructive power of a “perfect storm.” Next thing he knows, she is saying, “I want space” and “I love you, but I am not in love with you.”
These are the kiss of death moments that starts the “couch trip.” A couch trip is when insane people take over the asylum. Everything feels like the marriage went out of control, especially when her last bit of desire to save the marriage gets crushed. And, an “emotionally crazed” feeling can take over your marriage.
Does this sound like your marriage? If so, then you may be one big mistake away from the “couch trip.” Prevent this at all costs, and start to do so by getting a head start.
You can get the fastest head start in preventing divorce through the following quick tip.
1 simple secret to winning your wife’s heart back
[disclaimer] If you are not separated or divorced yet you can do this right away. Otherwise, you might want to first take time to improve yourself to be that man fit, confident, and more understanding man she truly desires. Then, casually invite her to meet you to just talk. If that goes well, then you can act on this strategic step.
The simple fact is most wives do not feel appreciated by their husbands. They need their husband to pursue them through simple actions. Next time the two of you are apart from each other, send her an unexpected love letter text. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy, just use emotion type statements, such as:
Try texting her a message about what you want to do with her as soon as you are together again.
“I miss you, and all I can think about is making you go wild” is a good start! Get creative, and a bit explicit if that is what is needed.
It refreshes both of you. Imagine making these kind of promises for your wife
and then making them happen. Picture the looks on her face when she sees that you followed through and put effort into your relationship!
And, she will secretly respect being shown that kind of action you take. Take it one step further towards your goal of saving your marriage.
“True Grit” to get her back
So, I want to share with you 7 Husband Habits You Need to Know to Save Your Marriage – Use them to save your marriage from divorce and get back on the right track with your wife. I used it and it and experienced amazing results.
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These secrets will show you how to have the grit it takes to stop your divorce, even if your current situation seems hopeless. After all, if you’re on the verge of divorce, or if your marriage isn’t a happy one… there’s no doubt that it’s one of the worst things you can go through.
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