Which Passionate Marriage Activities do you share with your mate? That is… Besides being passionate about each other because…
It’s KMA’s 1st fb passionate marriage activities participation game:
Today will be your chance to share with the world what activities really get you excited and feeling super fulfilled.
Stuff that that you just can’t wait to do and tell others about.
But, the twist is that I am looking for examples of passionate past times that you share with your mate. Even if it is simply enjoying a favorite T.V. show together… even that can be a big motivator to be together and have fun while you’re at it.
Then… I will lay out 3 Tips for struggling couples to follow in order to maximize the effectiveness of using activities that are fulfilling and fun to help rekindle the flame of romance and passion!
Married life should be filled with fun activities together!
But, even if you do not share many hobbies and interests together, then it is vital that you discover at least one thing that both of you could enjoy doing together.
And… You don’t have to go to fantastic far off places to create the kind of magic for your marriage that scenic places create.
Go to a local park, mountain trail, flower, or butterfly garden, fancy restaurant… the kind that has a steel drum band, or great service and make the magic happen there.
I love to turn my home into something I call “Our husband and wife cave.” It is our little romantic cave where we can feel alone and close. Lights become dimmed to a romantic glow to light our nice food that we can talk over. That is the way we roll on our little rediscovery dates.
A marriage needs to be enjoyed over shared experiences together…
This is especially true if your marriage is in trouble and growing colder every day. Find the thing that both of your have a serious passion for–and ask him or her for a nice little date to do just that.
If you reconnect on the basis of a shared love and passion, then those are the things that might just be sparked between the two of you.
Just Google search “marriage retreats” or “marriage cruise package” and you will find something worth saving your money for that could help rekindle your flame. But, when doing so try to pair up the marriage vacation package with one that includes a place, or activity that both of you are passionate about and watch the sparks fly.
But, before you make that kind of investment… Here are a few tips to use when trying to re-spark your passion for each other through activities both of you are passionate about.
Tip #1 B:e informal. If there is trouble in paradise, then trying to take your marriage to the next level is ill advised. Reconnect with him or her by casually asking if your mate would like to “just talk” at one of the themed restaurants you used to frequent. If you try to make a fancy date out of it–you might just scare them farther away from you.
Tip #2: Make it about your mate. OK. Your mate is your spouse. Right? When trying to reconnect over a favorite activity don’t let it be an activity that you enjoy too much. Think in terms of them being your mate in the sense of a lifelong friend. Be his or her friend and make your informal date for a talk something that makes them feel your friendship from your heart.
Tip #2: Have a Romantic Plan B. When and (hopefully) if the Tips 1 and 2 go very well, already have a great romantic activity that both of you are passionate about already set up for the two of you. Everything I have been talking about thus far should be in play when you romantically reconnect over a mutually shared passion.
If you need some help coming up with ideas I will be posting the submissions for the first couples participation game that I have set up through the KMA facebook fanpage.
The promotional facebook post asked married couples the following:
“Tell us your favorite personally fulfilling activity. Here’s the twist. It has to be something you share together with your mate… that they enjoy too! The first entry soon to follow!”
Well, I never want to not deliver on a promise. So, this is what a local Orlando Florida Pastor shared with me based on his answer to my question “Which Passionate Marriage Activities do you share with your mate?”
“I know that my wife and I are both history buffs. Big time. Anything from the last couple centuries and beyond even. That stuff fascinates us and we love to… to continue reading click here!
Thanks for all who have participated and who will follow their examples. If you have a story to share about activities both you and your mate are passionate about, then drop us your comment right over there, below all this writing. Thanks!
After all… Most all couples want this for at least a bit-a-time… most who I’ve asked do too! Make your dreams come true together no matter what they are.